Challenging Stereotypes
In honour of International Women’s Day, here are some of my hopes and dreams for Women for the future of liberated sex and relationships. The sexual double standard be scrapped No more shaming women with […]
In honour of International Women’s Day, here are some of my hopes and dreams for Women for the future of liberated sex and relationships. The sexual double standard be scrapped No more shaming women with […]
Consent is more than just submitting to sex! It means freely agreeing to sex! Enthusiastically agreeing to sexual contact! “Yes! I want to kiss you!” The law says that you cannot freely agree to sex […]
How to keep your relationship sexually passionate Have you ever wondered what the secrets are to long-term relationship sexual satisfaction? I’ve trawled through decades of research, analysing couples with satisfying sex lives all over the […]
How to orgasm easily and frequently, whether for the first time with your partner or expanding your pleasure capacity into full body, multiple orgasms that last for hours. Love your body If you’re worried about […]
Don’t prioritise chemistry in a relationship above everything else. Players can ooze charm. Abusers can ‘love bomb’ you with ‘chemistry.’ There are so many reality TV shows where the participants harp on about chemistry all […]
Our sex and eating practices have been interlinked throughout history Eve stands naked before me holding an apple to her full lips. It’s an undeniably sensual gesture from my favourite painting. How fascinating that forbidden […]
Polluting our environment sabotages our sexual development I hate the term “the environment” because it suggests that it is something separate from us, like it’s “out there.” Yet the environment is a part of us. […]
Content warning: sexual assault Sexual wounding in abusive relationships can run very deep. Many clients come to see me after surviving sexual mistreatment and we work on learning about new approaches to sexual intimacy, consent, […]
Have you got endometriosis and it’s hindering your sex life? Recently I spoke on Triple J’s ‘The Hook Up’ about sex with endometriosis. I have stage four endometriosis (the most severe kind) and I know […]
Are you a booty call, friend with benefits, fallback or in a casual relationship when you want more? Many people want the companionship and regular sex of someone with the least amount of effort possible. […]