Challenging Stereotypes

February 24, 2018

In honour of International Women’s Day, here are some of my hopes and dreams for Women for the future of liberated sex and relationships. The sexual double standard be scrapped No more shaming women with […]

Sexual consent is everything

February 1, 2018

Consent is more than just submitting to sex! It means freely agreeing to sex! Enthusiastically agreeing to sexual contact! “Yes! I want to kiss you!” The law says that you cannot freely agree to sex […]

Staying Satisfied

December 11, 2017

How to keep your relationship sexually passionate

 Have you ever wondered what the secrets are to long-term relationship sexual satisfaction? 

I’ve trawled through decades of research, analysing couples with satisfying sex lives all over the […]


November 14, 2017

How to orgasm easily and frequently, whether for the first time with your partner or expanding your pleasure capacity into full body, multiple orgasms that last for hours. Love your body If you’re worried about […]

You can’t trust chemistry

October 16, 2017

Don’t prioritise chemistry in a relationship above everything else. Players can ooze charm. Abusers can ‘love bomb’ you with ‘chemistry.’ There are so many reality TV shows where the participants harp on about chemistry all […]

Scrumptious sex

September 20, 2017

Our sex and eating practices have been interlinked throughout history Eve stands naked before me holding an apple to her full lips. It’s an undeniably sensual gesture from my favourite painting. How fascinating that forbidden […]

Healing from Sexual Wounds in an Abusive Relationship

August 8, 2017

Content warning: sexual assault Sexual wounding in abusive relationships can run very deep. Many clients come to see me after surviving sexual mistreatment and we work on learning about new approaches to sexual intimacy, consent, […]

How to have passionate sex with endometriosis

May 17, 2017

Have you got endometriosis and it’s hindering your sex life? Recently I spoke on Triple J’s ‘The Hook Up’ about sex with endometriosis. I have stage four endometriosis (the most severe kind) and I know […]

You keep me hanging on

November 4, 2016

Are you a booty call, friend with benefits, fallback or in a casual relationship when you want more? Many people want the companionship and regular sex of someone with the least amount of effort possible. […]

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